I have gone through your last reply over and over again for the past one month, I don't even know where to start from or what to do on this matter, how to act or what's the way forward.
Remember from the past how I battled many spiritual problems and ancestral forces and marital issue. How I married and everything went sour in the twinkle of an eye without reason. How my dreams kept pointing that my estranged husband will return. It was too hard to believe most of the interpretations you gave of my dreams back then, all have come to pass way and manner, never knew I would get a job in this life but I did and it happened the way I dreamt and you interpreted, thanks for the guidance over the years.
My husband an American citizen whom I married legally in the High courts here in Nigeria 2015, remember he stopped communicating with me for no reasons since 2016, after he calledme that my greencard documents have all been approved, that was the last day I heard from him, he held on to the documents and information needed to finally proceed to the USA, all I had was the welcome letter sent to me by the national visa center in the USA, I did all manner of fasting and prayers and deliverance, all to no avail, but the dreams and interpretation kept pointing he would return. 2018 when I heard he took another girl from same town we grew up, to united states I lost all hopes. He got the girl pregnant immediately, the said girl was traditionally, legally and churchly married, but her husband left for the USA with ambassadorial visa and didn't return, he is in the USA paperless. A classmate of my estranged husband introduced her to him and he took her there. He no distant time, the girl arranged a lawyer to facilitate a divorce between her and her husband and also to facilitate a divorce between my husband I, against my will, I went to the courts several times and the divorce was not granted, reason being that the marriage wasn't up to two years, this man was threatening me with everything that I must accept the divorce, strange things happened that took me away from the state I was living then, that I couldn't continue with the divorce, I had to battle for my life because of strange ailments that came upon me, in 2019 in my very sick state, that's about 2yrs after I left that state, the arranged lawyer called me and told I have been divorced, I was amazed and in pain at the same time, because I didn't consent to it, I didn't go to courts or signed any divorce papers, I took my fate and kept on focusing on my life. Once in a while I would remember the dreams about him coming back wretched and poor begging for my forgiveness. I would assume maybe it's my mind that conjured those dreams, as I never saw the possibility of his return. I started having some mind boggling dreams some time in February and March this year, I would just shove it off.
On the 9th of March this year about 3am, a very familiar USA number called me, lo and behold it was my estranged husband whom I haven't spoken to or heard from since March/April 2016, he was begging me and asking for forgiveness, that he doesn't know and can't explain what came over him, that he is confused and doesn't understand what is going on, he said he just started remembering constantly and doesn't know why we separated that I should explain what happened, he was crying and begging, his life is in shambles, many court cases on his neck, he has a daughter that cannot speak nor even respond when her name is called, no job, his drinking became excessive, he is living on government assistance, the said lady was messing him up and using all his money for her family and her former husband that's in the USA, he is depressed, he has so many problems hanging all around his neck, he said he wants to divorce the lady, as he doesn't know how he got where he is, why he married her and all sorts, though they only married by signing papers in the USA whiletenderinga fakedivorce, nothing more, she has even rented her own house and moved out of his house, but comes around often, he said they are always fighting, no matter how he tries to be nice, she is always fighting him, he said he wants a divorce, she accepted amd said all she wants is her papers, that she has only been forcing herself to stay with him till she gets her papers. NOw she found out that we have started talking she said she must contest the divorce and doesn't want to go away legally until she gets green card.
Funny enough, as me and the estranged started talking, things started picking up for him rapidly, he says he feels peaceful and no more depression, one or two companies have invited him for a job... The girl has found out that we have started talking, she moved back to the house and said she is not willing to divorce again, himself, according to him is threading carefully and saying he would wait till she gets her paper's and divorce so we can get back together. If I tender my documents to USA department of state, her whole process would be terminated, the USA government would punish him and depot the girl, If I don't, she would go scot free with whatshe has done to me and my husband, get the green card and leave back to her husband or wherever, while my life has been delayed and my documents have been held back, I'm confused and feel like a fool, who have been cheated. It hurts everyday.
If I say I Don't want to talk to him anymore, it would hurtbecauseI wantmy husbandback , deep inside My heart I'm happy he returned, even though it hurts still
I'm in a dilemma. Should I wait for him to divorce, Should I tender my documents and retrieve mine back, though I fear the consequences, Should I forget him for good and continue waiting for God for another or Should I fight this battle and get my husband back.
I sincerely don't know what to do or think, it's only God's intervention that can guide me in the right decision and can help the whole situation. I Don't know how else to pray.
Please sir, give me your words of counsel on this matter, and guide me on how to pray for God intervention in this whole matter ?