[ebankole]

What exactly do u want for you mother, spiritually/physically?

Bless u

[MrsS]

Spiritually, i need to get her information about this particular "pastor", the fact that his ways are not godly though miracles are being performed. i had this same conversation with her before, after the same "pastor" was dragged to court for not fulfilling fatherly duties with a child he had out od wedlock with a church member.

This week, i landed on video clips of his ministry and my heart sank. it was more spiritualist more than i anticipated. when i called my mother, she said she had been there, (The church is a walking distance froem where she stays actually )but we never discussed the matter in details.i just cautioned her not to go there again.
i need to have info so i explain it all to her.

She definitely needs deliverance.

Physically, i need her to live in the manifestation total prosperity- health, good house and living conditions, lacking nothing. She has suffered a lot in the past. i just wish her to live at peace the rest of her life hence forth

[ebankole]

Hmm
I see. All she needs is jesus, to understand to the essence of true repentance,salvation, deliverance and the joy that comes with it.


Truly u have lot to do if u must bring her to true repentance and healing.


But before any other thing, you must ask God for wisdom and inspiration.

Yes, you need wisdom, meditate on the book of proverb and Joel 2:28.

You should try if you can persuade her to mediate on the book of revelation.


May the living jesus help u to bring your mother to true repentance and salvation.
Bless u

[MrsS]

Thank you Sir.

i surely need wisdom.
many Christians are blinded by the miracle results and are desperate for
deliverance, and breakthroughs,that we forget the character that should accompany the anointing.
that's what happened to me as well when i went to the prophetess.

(i was in touch with her on the phone for about 3 months but it added to my problems.yet i only met her once, when she was praying/delivering me.The next thing you know, she was chasing me in the dream.i should have been more cautious spiritually. )

But i thank God though as that experience has opened my eyes spiritually.i can now spot true/fake men of God quickly.

thank you so much for the guidance Sir. God bless you always

[andyud]

My sister @mrs i have been following ur questions and just want to add something to what the prophet have said concerning your mother issue,do not worry yourself over this issue,just pray and ask God what to do,i am 100% sure he will reveal to you the steps to meet his will in this issue.God bless you

[MrsS]

thank you Andyud.
Indeed, i have given it to God. He alone can open my mother's eyes and understanding.

Am now getting knowledge so as not to perish in ignorance (Hosea 4:6).it will also help many others who are encountering the same problem.

[andyud]

Hello sir,i saw Your interpretation to Mrs's dream where told her that she has the power to say no to a particular thing God is telling her,sir do we all have the power to do this in all occasions? Or is there a particular directive one can say no even thought its from God?

[ebankole]

Not really, but ofcourse when it's to do with choosing who you want to spend the rest of your life with.

God understands the power of love, and the essence of communication and our expectations ; what we want in our partner.

And yes. The lord won't decline nor hide who he feels will make a good partner but, he also understands that there will always be another, better option out there.

In essence, we can not afford to go against the lords will often when it comes to the issue of making the right choice or partner as there is a limit to number of years we can maintain singlehood.
Above all? God will always give you something better (when it come to choosing you life partner)but the power to choose or say yes lies our hands.


Now you don't want to go beyond or decline against the lord direction except in the area. Else? ...



Bless u

[MrsS]

To Add to Pastor Bankole's answer, there is nowhere in the bible where God forces anyone to marry a particular person. There are 2 cases that people tend to twist

1. Joseph & Mary. God never told Joseph to Marry Mary when she was pregnant with Jesus. He only encouraged him not to be afraid to marry her. Mathew 1:20 But as he was thinking this over, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, saying, Joseph, descendant of David, do not be afraid to take Mary [as] your wife, for that which is conceived in her is of (from, out of) the Holy Spirit

2.Hosea & Gomer.God only suggested to Hosea among which group to marry. Its Hosea who chose Gomer.
Hosea 1:2-3 When the Lord first spoke with and through Hosea, the Lord said to him, Go, take to yourself a wife of harlotry and have children of [her] harlotry, for the land commits great whoredom by departing from the Lord.So he went and took Gomer the daughter of Diblaim, and she became pregnant and bore him a son

Remember we are free moral agents. If God cannot force salvation on us, (though he wishes that all men be saved.1 Timothy 2:4) then He definitely cannot force marriage & spouses on us.

He can guide,direct, prepare,suggest, encourage,lead you to a particular person, but He will not force you to marry him/her. Its still your choice. But its always best to seek God's opinion before you finally choose.

God being the great loving father that He is, wants to give you the best. He knows who matches your star very well. So if you are thinking about marrying someone who is just good for you, and you ask God's opinion, He may not give you peace/encourage you about them simply because He knows there is someone best for you ;)

[andyud]

Yes my sister,God created us and by his love gave us freedome to make decision bt we have seen the consequences of those that foregone God's directions and followed their will,examples are Adam and Eve,action of Israelites towards cleb and Joshua after spying the promised land etc.how do i honestly differentiate these to avoid been disobedient to his instruction?