1. It's called " trapped in the past, retrogression ". And here, there is no peace, no joy, not progress, no reward, and nothing good can find you, and even the one you have will be taken from you if care is not taken. So, are you supposed to be there in the first place, now?
You need to come out of this enclosure and envelop of retrogression you've found yourself, your spirit in the spirit realm if your physical life must be progressive and your spiritual and physical valuables should not be taken from you, by the enemy.
Declare this prayer every day until something happens or there is a contradictory message ;
" I, so so, my body, spirit, and soul, I refuse to be confined by the entanglement of chains of retrogression, limitations, and into the camp of the enemy and to be robbed of my blessing, valuables, therefore, in the name is Jesus, I come out now, by fire!!!".
Ps 119,42,51,7, and 27.
2. Do not entertain your cousin into your house, privacy, or life, and be very careful and choosy when it comes to the kind of family members you entertain into your life/home lest they become a channel through which you are invaded, penetrated, and captured by the enemy within....family circle.
I repeat, do not and trust nobody lest an evil informant and or loophole is created to monitored your life, destiny, and to attack you at will by the household enemy.
Bless you.